The last few years have been ones of life changing ups and downs for me. Loss has taught me that courage has nothing to do with fearlessness. Courage is the commitment to fight through fear and sometimes anger, frustration and self-pity, to live better.

I am not very "religious" but I do believe we get one chance on this earth to get it right. I also believe that that one chance lasts our entire life, which means we have plenty of time to keep trying to get it right.

Perspective is truly a daily effort when we are struggling to accept that we control so little on this earth. When I am really losing my grip, I sometimes have to physically make a list of the things I am grateful for... I am grateful for my amazing children, my family and my "true friends", my warm cozy home, enough money to live comfortably, and to be here to protect and guide my children.

I feel especially lucky that I have these things when a new obstacle forces it's way into my life. At these times I have to remind myself much more frequently that I am fortunate in many more ways than I am unfortunate.

I am very lucky to have added to the list of things I'm grateful for this year. I am grateful to have found the career I was meant to pursue. This passion is a new source of courage for me. I am even more grateful for the amazing people who have come into my life as a result of this new career path that I have found myself on. I consider all of you "true friends" and hope you count me as your friend as well.

This holiday season is about family and community to me. Please know that I am here for you and with you as we all work our way down this bumpy, winding road we share in life.

Thank you for the gift of friendship and courage that you show me every time we are together.

I wish us all a happy, healthy and peaceful new year.